Although Carmen turned
21 a month ago this weekend past was the only time that she could get leave on
a weekend and it was a long weekend making it possible for more people to come.
Raewyn and Dylan
arrived first, their flight landed Thursday morning.
Jess and I both very
excited went to pick them up. We had not seen them since December.
The red plane is
Raewyn and Dylan’s. They flew to the small airport Lanseria you can still see flights landing.
Their flight was
empty so they were out of it and looking for us in minutes.
We had breakfast while
waiting for the traffic to die down.
Raewyn then told me
that they give talks on the flight saying that words such as gun, bomb,
hi-jacking etc may not be used.
I am very
relieved. My daughter was not escorted
off the plane. Let me explain, things
like that are a challenge to Raewyn.
I looked at her and
said:
“You are never flying
again.”
I was being completely
serious I have horror visions of Rae being detained for terrorism.
The weather totally
behaved Johannesburg was being it’s usual freeze the crap out of you self, so I
told my family all to bring lots of warm clothes. From Thursday when Raewyn arrived the sun
came out and it was hot for the first time in weeks.
Thursday night Raewyn
asked if “a couple of her closest friends” could come round for a small get
together. Typical Raewyn style they kept arriving and
arriving. When I asked her about it, her
answer was:
“But these are my
closest friends.”
Dane added:
“And their closest
friends, siblings, cousins....”
My Mom arrived I saw
her last in January so it was also a very happy reunion.
That evening Michael,
my Mom and I left to fetch Carmen and Jason from the airport.
The electric gate
would not open so we first had to sort it out to get out. Then we were stopped in a roadblock around
the corner from home. Our licence disk
paper has gone missing so we got a fine.
Then we were half way
when the head lights stopped working so again we had to pull over so that
Michael could fix them.
Fortunately Carmen and
Jason’s flight was full and they came out very late so all the delays did not
matter.
Carmen said that I was
going to hug all her breath out but it is kind of how a Mom reacts after not
seeing her child for half a year.
My Mom gave Carmen a
photo album full of old family photos.
Rae gave Carmen a beautiful dress that she bought specially for Carmen
to wear to the party. I was totally
gansta, a week before, I called Carmen told her not to buy a dress because a
friend gave me a lovely dress. Carmen
did not suspect a thing. We all stayed
up chatting and chatting.
The next day was
a rush of shopping and preparations.
Saturday morning I
rushed to the shops to do the last shopping. We all went to the moth hall to
prepare it for the party. Fortunately I
had lots of helpers. Michael started the
chicken curry potjie and went back home to cook the macaroni. Half of the Birthday cake flopped but
fortunately half was fine. He was upset
as he hardly ever flops any baking.
Frankie (Jess’ friend)
got very creative with bathroom
decorations.
When we finally had
the hall beautiful and ready we drove home quickly to get dressed.
We arrived home to
chaos my sister Penny was making the soups and asked me how much time she had
left. I told her an hour. She said there was no way she was going to
make it.
I had to finish
putting Carmen’s printed book together. Raewyn
realised she had nothing to wear. She is
a size 8 I am a size 20. I remembered
that I had a blouse that I knew would fit her and it is lovely. She quickly tried it on, it worked.
Miraculously my sister
finished the soup we all got dressed and ready and were at the venue at time
6pm. Then we realised that we had left
the sparkling wine and pudding chocolates behind, so I had to drive back again.
The party was
fabulous. The food that my sister and
Michael made was enjoyed by all. The
home made chocolate that Michael made to have with ice cream was received
exceptionally well. There were a lot of
faces covered with chocolate.
We put on a slide show
of Carmen’s book. I was going to keep
quiet and let it roll. Michael came over
and whispered:
“Say something”
This is very odd I
know but I am very good at impromptu public speeches. I completely suck if I prepare it so it all
went well.
Raewyn was MC, she
called me to first say something about Carmen.
When I finished before
the next person came Rae put a chair down and told Carmen to come and sit on
the little stage with the people speaking about her.
Again this was Michael’s
idea. I really am married to the most
considerate man.
When Carmen finally
spoke after being fed way too many tequilas, she was wobbling on her skinny
little legs. She was talking about
standing at the edge of a cliff with Jason and it was soo funny because she was
standing at the edge of the stage and we all were scared she was going to fall
off. Fortunately Raewyn plopped her down
on the chair to safely continue speaking.
I went back to fetch the last stragglers, fortunately because none of them were sober enough to drive. It took me forever to convince Jason to get in the car because he was looking for his beers and I kept explaining to him that Carsten took them home for him.
The next day we all
had “bubble eyes” my sister’s word for babalaas which I think is an SA only
term for hangover.
Carmen also picked up Jess' flu and they spent the entire day in bed.
We spent the evening
in the lounge eating heaps of popcorn and watching movies.
The following morning I
took Raewyn, my Mom and Dylan to the bus stop.
I was thinking about
buying a tazer and keeping Carmen, Raewyn, Jason, Dylan and my Mom in our
cottage locked up. Somebody did point
out that Carmen and Raewyn might kill each other which would make the capture
pointless.
Jason was at his parent’s
house and Carmen spent a quiet day with us watching comedies.
Now that song “Every
time you go away, you take a piece of me with you,” is stuck in my head.
Looks like a fun party!! I'm glad you were able to have some nice family time! Oh it must be so hard to say goodbye!! Mine are only 4 and 7...I dread the day when they are on their own!! PS: This is MarieBee...I can't figure out how to post on here with my Blogger name! You know my real name now :P
ReplyDeleteThanks Marie, I think what you need to do is press the drop down arrow and choose what way you make your comment, via google or with your url etc. Marie, I cannot believe my girls grew up so quickly.
ReplyDeleteLook like a lot of fun! You managed to get some great pics. :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Dana, it was a wonderful weekend!
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